When a couple get married, they march down the aisle, stop at the altar, and sing a hymn – and that’s what the bride is thinking – I’ll alter him.
A woman marries a man, thinking that she will change him – and he doesn’t.
A man marries a woman thinking that she will never change – and she does.
A bigamist is a man who makes the same mistake twice. A husband is a man who only makes that mistake once – although, there are the serial optimists/masochists who keep trying. They could marry anyone they please – only they never please anyone.
The Word Of the Week is
Definitions for trothplight
engagement to be married;
betrothal. to betroth.
Origin of trothplight
Trothplight comes from Middle English trouth plight meaning “having plighted troth” or “having pledged one’s faithfulness to another in engagement to marry.” It entered English in the 1300s.
I’ve included trothplight, just as proof that Dictionary.com does include old and odd words as click-bait. We have lots of words in the English language that we still use and are a thousand years old. This one though, is archaic. It’s not commonly used any more. It’s the kind of word found now only in the historical romance books that the wife (and the son) read.
The rigid moral and social rules and expectations that gave rise to the action and the word, no longer exist. Today’s equivalent would be, ‘shack up’, or, ‘let’s live together.’ I find it interesting, and perhaps ironic, that the word contains ‘plight,’ which comes from the same basis as ‘pledge’, but it also means
1.a condition, state, or situation, especially an unfavorable or unfortunate one:
to find oneself in a sorry plight.
Since the advent of Women’s Rights, more and more women are saying that they don’t need a man.
Since the advent of online porn, more and more men are saying that they don’t need the aggravation a woman.
The above light-hearted, satirical comedy has been brought to you by a Happily Married Man, who has only made one marriage mistake in almost 50 years – unless you talk to my wife. 😯